Sekuyisikhathi eside, izinto ezithinta amathawula okugeza izingane ziye zaba yinto ephikisanayo phakathi kwabazali abaningi, abanye abazali baphikelela ngokuthi impahla ye-gauze yamathawula okugeza iphakeme;kuyilapho abanye abazali bengase bamukele izinto ezihlanzekile zikakotini, ngemva kwakho konke, lokhu kuyinto ethandwa kakhulu futhi yendabuko, eyamukelwa kabanzi.Ngakho-ke mayelana namathawula okugeza abantwana, kungcono ukusebenzisa ukotini ohlanzekile noma ukusebenzisa i-gauze?Impendulo yalesi sihloko esiyimpikiswano izonikezwa namuhla.

Njengamanje, izinto ezithengiswa kakhulu zethawula zokugeza izingane emakethe ziyi-gauze nekotini elihlanzekile, futhi impendulo evela kubazali iseyinhle kakhulu.Kumathawula okugeza omntwana enziwe nge-gauze, iningi lazo liyizingqimba ezintathu kuya kwezine, ezinobukhulu obuthile.Ngaphezu kwalokho, impahla ye-gauze inezimbotshana zayo, ngakho-ke ukuphefumula kwayo kuhle kakhulu, futhi ngeke kubangele isikhumba somntwana ukuba sigcwale.Futhi impahla kakotini yethawula lokugeza nayo inongqimba olulodwa kanye nongqimba oluphindwe kabili, le nto yethawula lokugeza inokuthinta okuhle kakhulu, ukuthinta noma ukusebenzisa wonke umuzwa ukhululekile kakhulu, futhi uthambile impela, ngeke ubangele ukulimala kwengane. isikhumba.Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi lapho umntwana egeza, ukusetshenziswa kwethawula lokugeza ukotini kungakhipha ngokushesha amanzi emzimbeni wengane ukuze kugwenywe amanzi amaningi okwenza isikhumba somntwana singakhululeki.Ngakho-ke, empeleni, lezi zinto ezimbili zamathawula okugeza izingane ziyizinqumo ezinhle, ukusetshenziswa komntwana okuhlangenwe nakho kuhle, kodwa futhi ngeke kuholele ekuphenduleni komzimba esikhumbeni somntwana.

Yiqiniso, abanye abazali banezidingo eziphakeme zokudonsa amathawula okugeza, ngakho-ke kunconywa ukuba ukhethe ukotini ohlanzekile.Uma kungekho isidingo esidlulele, ungakhetha noma iyiphi ozoyisebenzisa.